FFWPU Malaysia | Peace Embassy, Malaysia HQ
Date: 18 July 2026
On 18 July 2026, FFWPU Malaysia successfully held the Pre-Marriage Blessing Workshop Level 1 at the Peace Embassy (Malaysia HQ) under the theme “The Path to a Happy Marriage.” Nine matching candidates participated in this meaningful event, taking their first step toward understanding God’s vision for the Blessing.
Workshop Objectives
- Understand the Blessing: Provide potential candidates with a clear understanding of the meaning and value of the Blessing.
- Distinguish Ideals: Help participants differentiate between worldly marriage and a Blessing based on Heavenly Parent’s ideal.
- Prepare Personally: Encourage participants to prepare spiritually, emotionally, and personally before entering the matching process.
Program Highlights
- Opening Remarks: Delivered by Mr. Shu Lin Ng.
- Core Lectures by Rev. Cheng Hai Lam: Topics included Marriage vs. Blessing, Value & Significance of the Blessing, and Blessing and Attitude. (Participants learned that the Blessing is a lifelong journey of loving unselfishly, building a family centered on Heavenly Parent, and inheriting the tradition of true love.)
- Testimony & Q&A: A heartfelt testimony by Bro. Zheng Wei, followed by an insightful Q&A Panel with Rev. Cheng Hai Lam, Mrs. Koay Phing Yeoh, and Mr. Shu Lin Ng.
- “Beautiful Night” Session: A one-on-one sharing session for participants to reflect, ask questions openly, and receive practical guidance.
- Closing Remarks: Delivered by Mrs. Koay Phing Yeoh, who encouraged participants to continue preparing with faith, sincerity, and trust in Heavenly Parent’s timing.
Key Takeaways & Impact
The workshop transformed many participants’ perspectives on the Blessing. Key realizations included:
- Understanding the difference between infatuation and true love.
- Recognizing the importance of personal growth and purity before marriage.
- Shifting focus from finding the right partner to becoming the right person.
Participants who previously carried doubts or fears left with renewed hope, greater confidence, and a stronger commitment to building joyful, God-centered Blessed Families.
Participant Reflections
“A Shift in Perspective”
“For someone like me who had never heard the word ‘Blessing’ before, it honestly felt a bit extreme at first. Hearing about being matched naturally triggered some personal hesitation, especially with modern, worldly mindsets. However, through the lectures and testimonies, I realized the profound importance of the Blessing as the path to raising a better next generation and building the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth. Thinking about marriage used to stress me out because I focused heavily on my shortcomings. But today’s session helped me see that having doubts and flaws is completely human. What matters most is how we grow, expand our love for others, and fulfill God’s Blessing. I learned a great deal!” — Wong Qi Yong (1st Generation, 20 years old)
“Growth and Responsibility”
“Through this workshop, I gained a deeper understanding of Heavenly Parent’s dream for every family to become an ideal family centered on His love. I realized that a happy, lasting marriage requires commitment, responsibility, and mutual growth. As a working member, I was reminded that living for the sake of others and taking responsibility for my own life are essential qualities as I prepare myself for the Matching and Blessing.” — Tan Chai Xin (1st Generation, 26 years old)
“True Love and Legacy”
“I gained a clearer understanding of the difference between simply liking someone and true love. As children of Heavenly Parent, we are called to inherit the tradition of true love and build marriages centered on Heavenly Parent and True Parents. Moving forward, I want to maintain purity and mature as an individual so that one day I can set a good example for my future children through a life of sacrifice and living for the sake of others.” — Jackson Ng Yee Kee (2nd Generation, 20 years old)