Families of the Ascended Support Group Meets in Connecticut
FFWPU USA: The Families of the Ascended is a group of blessed widows and widowers and parents of young Unificationists who have ascended. This group is now a part of the national Blessing & Family Ministry. The Families of the Ascended is creating support groups throughout the nation for those who have lost a loved one. The New Jersey group has been meeting every other month for over 10 years now. Last year, the Bridgeport, Connecticut group was started, led by Eva Mackin.
The Families of the Ascended group met in Connecticut on Sunday, May 17, 2015. It was organized by Eva Mackin, the Connecticut ministry leader; Toshiko Sato, the New Jersey ministry leader; and Annie Gagné, the national ministry leader. In an effort to support the Connecticut widows and widowers, Unificationists from New Jersey and New York came for an afternoon of sharing. There were some who had just lost their spouses a few months ago, another whose spouse ascended over 22 years ago, and all those in between.
Twelve people attended and had a chance to share their testimony. Most shared how lonely it was at the beginning. However, as time went by, there was some healing, and as one Japanese sister testified, she became more “professional” in her new status as a widow.
No one expected that this would happen to them. They all expressed their vision of growing old with their spouse, spending their remaining years in rocking chairs, catching up on books to read and playing puzzles or board games. The rude awakening of losing a spouse was shocking to everyone. To some, death came suddenly with no chance to say goodbye; to others, they had time to give their final farewells and say, “I love you.” Expressions of gratitude were given for all the love and support of their communities in laying their loved ones to rest. All were reminded how life here on this earth is really quite short.
After everyone gave their testimony, Annie shared the guidelines for the comfort blessing by the Blessing & Family Ministry— A comfort blessing is an earthly blessing between a Blessed man and Blessed woman whose spouses have ascended to the spiritual world. The guidelines helped answer many questions that were not clear before. It was clear no one should be judged for wanting the comfort blessing or not wanting it. It is a more complicated situation than being single and going to the Holy Marriage Blessing, as children are often now involved. It was also made clear to all that when we go to the spiritual world, we will be with our original spouse for eternity. Read More